It's an obvious huge red flag if you block me because honestly, why? There's very little acceptable reasons I feel to do so. Want to over a petty disagreement? Fine, it's not that deep and I don't care.
Other than that though, why? Because I'm the owner of a big goth hangout thread? I understand wanting to block big threads but a goth hangout? Yeah if you're not okay with goth then you're trash and go ahead and take yourself out by blocking me then.
If not that then it's because I'm too real, blunt and tolerate zero bullshit and will call s**t out when I see it. Not okay with that and want to block? Okay, take yourself out then and ******** off.
If you're doing it because you're believing petty bullshit lies about me without any actual proof. Do me that service then and remove yourself from my presence.
If you can't handle the fact that I'm anti religious, then please block me and ******** off.
The only time I see it as understandable is if I had one of my dumb moments where I lacked mindfulness and ended up insulting someone. I've done this in the past and I do feel bad for it but I tend to work on myself a lot and try to do better.
Another fair reason is if someone doesn't like how cynical I can be. I do have a very bleak outlook on this ******** existence so I completely understand if it's over that honestly. Fact of the matter is though, it's just part of my blunt demeanor. I don't ever feel the need to sugar coat things and I say s**t like it is.
The last reason is regarding recent events and in that case, honestly I don't see it as that bad. Ngl, I am upset by it a little. Those former friends who blocked me but at the same time I can at least understand why to a degree. Yes I do see it as potentially red flagy but it's something I can forgive in time and not keep a grudge over.
I'm honestly open to moving past that with individuals in cases like that. I can forgive and forget if any of you would ever like to do that. If not, fine, it's honestly whatever and so long as you're not trying to ******** with me some how, I don't care.
I've also been thinking of unblocking those who have blocked me over petty reasons but I'm hesitant for one reason only. I do not want any of you to ever reach out to me and then block me again so I can't respond. That's not cool and would just give me unnecessary anxiety. I'm not saying 'you would do that and that's how you are' because, I don't know that nor do I think that, but it's just something I don't want. I could just give benefit of the doubt and unblock but I digress.
Last thing I want to say is. I'm glad when things do end up working out between myself and someone who we'd previously blocked each other. One user recently unblocked me over something petty and I've been happy to interact with them again and they're a pretty nice person so I'm quite glad. I also ended up being very good friends with someone like this as well.
Fact of the matter is, life's too short to hold petty grudges and I too can move on from these. So long as you're not some unhinged piece of s**t like I touched on earlier, we can get along. Pettiness isn't the worst thing and none of us are perfect. I'd like to move past it all and if I feel I need to work on myself as a person as well, I will do my best.
At the end of the day, I have no grudges against petty things and I even still care about everyone and wish them well. I just can't be bothered to tolerate things that are unhealthy for me and my community.
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 Ralodosmovo · Fri Mar 14, 2025 @ 04:22pm · 0 Comments |
