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	Love: Do we need it?
	Love: Do we need it?


Today is one of my more serious journal entries speeking both on a psycological stage and on one of personal experience. Today's topic is a hard one for some to discuss,being that the topic is "Love biggrin o We Need It?"....and i don't mean love being the term we use so loosely i mean feelings of actual love towards another person. So...do we need it? We'll find out. Welcome to my world. Psycologically Speeking: Psycologically speeking,yes,we need love in the world to balance out total chaos and disorder due to our violent nature and because of the fact that putting aside lustfullness towards the opposite sex,we long to be close to somebody and love them and to be loved by them.This is the human nature. Due to the chemical responses of our minds we undoubtabley want to love but it still poses a haunting question to psycologists...."Do we NEED love in the world,and in our everyday lives? Personally Speeking: Personally i do believe we need love to survive and survive peacefully. Without love the world would have utter chaos and a violently rampaging inhabitance to live within it,but at the same time i question whether or not the work and sometimes pain we go through during periods of "Love". I believe that work is needed in any loving relationship...but what about the pains? Breakups,Divorce,Fights,Cheating. Is all that supposed to happen,no,but it does anyway. If these pains didnt happen i would agree 100% that love is really,truly needed in the world. But for now all i can say is im only 50% sure that we need it....thats my oppinion..and id love to hear yours.Comment please. Until Next Time, Kevin-Cloud N!ne Cloud N!ne · Mon May 28, 2007 @ 10:05pm · 5 Comments


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	Offline Cloud N!ne · Community Member · Mon May 28, 2007 @ 10:29pm


	Of course we need love. Although it's almost inevitable that you will suffer heart break, just remember you aren't alone. Your friends and family love you too. Love doesn't always come from relationships, you know. Love is just commonly used in that context. Besides, when a relationship doesn't go the way you plan, there's always a reason. True, it will hurt for a little while, but broken hearts do heal. While you may not completely forget the hurt caused, it won't hurt as badly. Just give it time. Offline Vindictive Vampiress · Community Member · Mon May 28, 2007 @ 11:35pm


	Yes, we need love to live through life, because what is the point of living if you don't have someone to share your lie with? What is the point in living if you have no one to worry about, and no one to occupy your mind when you are drawing a blank of what to think about? What do you think life is without love? I believe that it is a empty bottle that was meant to float across the ocean with a letter to someone. Life without love is like a world without oxygen. Would you ever live enough to make it through a day without love? I have seen the product of a loveless life, and it results in either, many animals occupying your house, or you may start to loose your teeth and you hair. It's because you have almost nothing to live for. Heartbreak is going to happen to everyone at some point in their life, weather it is a person who is going to break your heart by breaking up with you, ir someone who is going to say something that hurts you so badly, that you believe that it breaks your heart. Though these things are unavoidable, they are a healthy part of life, that you need to experience to even say you have been through life, and sadly, when we do experience heartbreak, we react in the worst ways imaginable. We break down, and close our systems down so there is nothing left for us to do but to sit around, and mope. Why? Because when we are in emotional pain, that is what we are trained to do. Be your worst possible self, and break down and cry like you never have before. Love is something that may seem like a luxury. But honestly, it's a necessity. Offline Scarlet Beauty · Community Member · Tue May 29, 2007 @ 10:12pm


	Too true. Offline Vindictive Vampiress · Community Member · Wed May 30, 2007 @ 01:25am


	i agree with you. love has a lot of ups and downs.the ups are nice while they last but the downs hert and seem to last forever.For some reason though, after you experence some of the downs, you learn some things and use them in another time.in the end, i totaly agree with you. ^^ Offline queen_of_the_darkest_life · Community Member · Thu May 31, 2007 @ 02:10pm

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