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So I was talking to a friend and the question "What do you want in a guy?" came up. I think it's something that eveyone, should write down. I never really thought of a concrete list but I think this will elp me evaluate what I need & can compromise on.

1.Respect. Uncompromisable. Get it straight I'm not lesser than you because females are usually physiologically weaker. You will not treat me like your dog.

2.I need a partner NOT a master. We both will hold equal footing in the realtionship. I will not walk behind you, but beside you.

3.Washboard abs. I love a man with abs. Biggest turn on. *makes me wanna snuggle*

4.You darn well better believe in God. No compromise. He's a big love in my heart & I can't romantically love anyone who doesn't love Him too. God is a big foundation in a relationship to me.

5. Sex. I wil NOT sleep with ou unless I marry you. I hate when a guy can only decide if he loves a girl after she gives in to sleeping with him. I'm a Christian.

6.Friendship. I want to be friends with you before I date you. Why? Because realtionships based upon solely physical attraction hardly last. I want to be able to talk to you not just kiss you.

7.Gotta wear boxers. So sexy. No briefs or boxerbriefs.

8.No marrying me becuase you feel you "need a wife". I'm not your mother. I'm NOT gonna wait on you hand & foot.

9.Career. If I'm working you better be working too or in College. I am a very progressive person. No sitting still on your butt while someone else is bringing in the cash.

10.I will not date a boy from the hood. I spent my first three years on this planet there and I know how the boys there play. They screw their girl's friends, work the Trap, and sit in the apartment while their girlfriends take care of them. Nu uh. Not me.

11.Date a coward? NO! Be a man & tell me to my face you like me. I approached a boy once in the middle of the classroom. He denied me after looking at his friends. Turns out, he liked me & asked me out to the movies three days later. Guess what? I turned him down. He was white & I was black, that's what it boiled down to. He was to much f a coward to say he like me in front of his friends.