To mother a child is to care and love them unconditionally...
no matter what happens, no matter what anyone says and no matter how hard that may become...
a child will grow up to look like her mother, but that doesn't mean that she will "become" her mother.
she has her own mind and is her own being and for a mother to infringe upon that rather than to accept her for what she is...
is wrong for that, for she is only pushing her child away rather than nuturing her.
there lies a difficult balance between being a mother and being a disciplinarian and once that line is crossed, there is no turning back...the bond is severed and the relationship falls to ashes as the fiery words clash between them...
